THE EGO MIND
More Example of Mental Database |
Your eyes
make contact with an object. Eyes see shape and color
of the object. The info is sent to the mind. | The mind labels the object as "dog." |
You pick
up the dog and play with it using your touch, sight,
sound, and smell senses. |
The mind
makes judgment about the dog. | If
the mind likes the dog then it generates a positive
emotion (pleasurable). If it doesn't like the dog then
it generates a negative emotion (displeasure). | It
stores info about the object (dog) and emotional response
in memory. This will determine how you're going to react
to a dog the next time you see it (habit, behavior pattern). |
Functions
of the Mind/Consciousness |
1. Pleasure/Displeasure - the mind
generates the feeling of pleasure and displeasure.
2. Memory - the mind is able
to store its experiences and emotional responses
in memory.
3. Judgment/Evaluation - the mind judges
and evaluates everything that it comes in contact with
and generates emotional response.
4. Cognition - it has awareness that
it sees, hears, touches, tastes, smells and thinks.
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What is an Ego? |
It's our sense of self: who we are
and the stories we tell ourselves. These stories
(contents in our mental database) are created
through contact with the 5 senses. (See
Mental Processing Diagram and How We Create Reality)
Over time we collect tons of data (experiences)
in our mind and form habits based on what we like
(pleasurable experiences) and what we don't like
(unpleasant experiences). These habits become
your behavioral patterns (how you react and make
decision in daily life).
This process creates Your Belief System. | |
Figure 4 |
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Characteristics of an Ego/Lower Consciousness |
The ego has the need
to control.
It has the need to be right.
It operates on survival instinct of fight or flight.
It experiences duality (see movement of the mind - it goes up & down, moves from left to right in Figure 4).
Its Movitation comes from
Selfishness
Fear
Discontent
Craving |
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The Ego’s instinct is to survive. In order for it to
survive it has to make sense of its surroundings so it constantly
judges or interprets what it’s seeing, hearing, touching,
tasting and smelling. But surviving isn’t enough for
the ego because it’s inherently dissatisfied with itself
(it lacks contentment). To solve this problem, it continually
seeks pleasure to get some relief.
Notice how we behave in our daily lives. We constantly look
for something pleasurable to see, hear, touch, taste and smell.
However, we can’t go through life with only pleasurable
experiences, and this is a struggle for the ego. When
it doesn’t like something, it generates negative feelings
in the mind such as stress, hatred, pain, worry or fear. So,
we suffer because of our own ego. These negative feelings
arise because the ego is not getting what it desires. But
even when it gets what it wants, the feeling of satisfaction
doesn’t last. Because all pleasures are temporary; once
a pleasure is had, the feeling disappears.
Once the pleasure disappears, the mind is back at being dissatisfied
with itself. So, it solves this problem by pursuing more pleasures.
Therefore, the mind is stuck in a cycle of pursuing -- thinking
that it will find a lasting happiness in pleasure, which pleasure
cannot truly provide because pleasure itself is unstable.
For example: Let say “pizza”
is your favorite food and it gives you great pleasure while
you’re eating it. The first 15 minutes of having it
is quite wonderful. But if you were to keep eating it for
hours and hours, it’s no longer enjoyable. The pleasure
now turns into pain. This is true with all pleasures. It simply
cannot be sustained.
Pleasure (Temporary Relief) VS True Happiness
Pleasure can only give us temporary relief; therefore, it's not true happiness.
True happiness is independent or unconditional, whereas pleasure is conditional.
For example: When people are asked
the question "Are you happy?" and they answer "yes",
they actually mean conditional happiness. They are happy
as long as they have their health, job, money; people
that they love are doing well, etc. As long as these
conditions are favorable, they're happy. But as soon
as these conditions change in the opposite direction
such as losing their health, job, money or the people
that they love die, they now feel very unhappy. |
The ego can only experience conditional happiness. It can only be happy if it gets what it wants. When things don't go according to what it wants, stress arises. To stop the feeling of stress from arising, we need to overcome the ego mind itself.
Question 3.
3. | a. Do you recognize your own ego and behavioral pattern?
b. How does your mind react to the information about the ego?
c. Does it agree or disagree with the information and why?
d. Do you see some false beliefs that the ego has created for you? What are some of these false beliefs?
Copy and add Question 3 to your "Awareness_Training" file, then write the answers and save it on your computer.
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